The Bars Are Ours: Histories and Cultures of Gay Bars in America, 1960 and After

About the book

Gay bars have operated as the most visible institutions of the LGBTQ+ community in the United States for the better part of a century, from before gay liberation until after their assumed obsolescence. In The Bars Are Ours Lucas Hilderbrand offers a panoramic history of gay bars, showing how they served as the medium for queer communities, politics, and cultures. Hilderbrand cruises from leather in Chicago and drag in Kansas City to activism against gentrification in Boston and racial discrimination in Atlanta; from New York City’s bathhouses, sex clubs, and discos and Houston’s legendary bar Mary’s to the alternative scenes that reimagined queer nightlife in San Francisco and Latinx venues in Los Angeles. The Bars Are Ours explores these local sites—with additional stops in Denver, Detroit, Seattle, Philadelphia, Minneapolis, and Orlando, as well as Wisconsin, Pennsylvania, and Texas—to demonstrate the intoxicating, even world-making roles that bars have played in queer public life across the country.

Published by Duke University Press, November 21, 2023

Reviews

One of the Best Books of 2023. “Hilderbrand visits gay and lesbian bars across the United States, in large cities and in small towns, as he offers readers one of the most comprehensive views of their history, significance, and influence on queer communities nationwide. This well researched book features engaging prose, as well as photographs and archival posters in every chapter. This is not just a book that deserves attention; it is a beautiful tribute to LGBTQIA+ nightlife.” — Library Journal

“ a stunning new work of research. … One thing that stands out about the book is how howlingly funny some of the passages are, and this makes what could otherwise be a dry academic text both enchanting and engaging. … The book leaves the reader feeling that the era of gay bars is not over and they will evolve to meet the needs of our diverse communities in the future.” —Michael Flanagan, Bay Area Reporter

The Bars Are Ours is a joy to read. Lucas Hilderbrand is able both to insert himself into his narrative in ways that makes it come alive and at the same time to step back and analyze. The stories are so compelling! Some made me laugh; some left me teary-eyed; and some offered eye-opening insights into a history that is shamefully under-told and under-appreciated.” — John D’Emilio

“Lucas Hilderbrand’s The Bars Are Ours is a true tour de force. It is a comprehensive historical study of gay bars in the United States that is at once exhaustively researched and beautifully precise. Hilderbrand demonstrates a true respect for this history and tells it in a vital new way. Clearly and elegantly written, this is a nuanced, conceptual, and moving work.” — Christina B. Hanhardt

“Hilderbrand’s writing is transportive, which bolsters his impressive research. … A powerful celebration and examination of LGBTQIA+ nightlife. This book will serve as a significant record of evolving cultural touchstones and queer communities across the country.” — starred review, Library Journal

“In his historical opus, Hilderbrand makes a comprehensive study of the history of gay bars in America from 1960 to the present day. Hilderbrand’s take on the subject doesn’t shirk from looking at the bad as well as the good. In the early days, gay bars were a seedy affair, usually operated by non-gay organized crime. Later, even as more gay people assumed ownership of the bars, many of those owners were of questionable character. But as the community evolved, so did the bars, becoming more crucial contributors to the building of a diverse, supportive, and positive community.” — Booklist

“A fascinating archival deep dive. . . . Chock-full of excerpts from local gay press rags, recent oral histories, and a treasure trove of old fliers and ads that are as sexy as they are clever and funny, the book shows how the bars reflected the queer communities they attracted—in their irreverence, activism, and spirit of warmth and safety, as well as (sometimes) their overt or implicit discrimination and bias against patrons who did not fit a certain cisgender, gay white male ideal. … [An] absorbing new book, an academic text that is actually fun and riveting to read.” — Tim Murphy, The Body

A happy cry … The Bars Are Ours tickled the sweet spot in my nostalgia, while also being pretty clear about the ways that gay bars have historically been complicated—racist, gender-policing and often unwelcoming to people who are considered too old, insufficiently fancy or not commercially attractive. Hilderbrand is my favourite kind of smartypants—he knows an absolute ton and still manages to write interesting, vibrant prose with some of the sparkle still on it, not weighted down with jargon and internal politicking of the discipline.” — S. Bear Bergman, Xtra magazine

“sprawling, playful and rigorous” — Hari Nef, The New York Times

a history by means of a series of in-depth case studies—a bar crawl, if you will … It is by embodying this tension between inclusion and exclusion—the bouncer’s nightly decision about who gets in and who doesn’t—that makes bars so central to understanding the many contradictions of queer culture. … The best bars are always the ones we haven’t yet been to, and maybe that’s why we keep going out.” Kevin Brazil, The Baffler

This project is a bold and ambitious undertaking, many years in the making, and Hilderbrand nailed it.” — JD Doyle

“Author Lucas Hilderbrand's sprawling tome looks at the ways watering holes shaped modern queer identity. Traveling from New York to Los Angeles, Houston to San Francisco, and many points in-between, Hilderbrand dives deep. The results are impressive” — Out

“Fucking beautiful.” — Emily Colucci, Filthy Dreams

“a remarkable achievement and essential reading for any serious student of contemporary queer history.” — Matthew Hays, Gay & Lesbian Review

Profiles: The Body, Duke University Press blog, UCI, The Windy City Times, Sewers of Paris podcast, LGBT Senior podcast One Thing or Another, KCUR (Kansas City Public Radio)

Postscript in Gay & Lesbian Review blog

Excerpts: Club Chico (Los Angeles) in GayCities and Mable Peabody’s Beauty Parlor and Chainsaw Repair (Denton, TX) in LitHub

Book events

Montreal

Nov 4, 6-8pm: American Studies Association LGBTQ+ collective book party at L'Euguélionne (1426 Rue Beaudry)

Santa Barbara

Nov 28, UC Santa Barbara

West Hollywood

Nov 29, 7pm: Reading at Book Soup (8818 Sunset Blvd., West Hollywood)

Boston (virtual)

Nov 30, 7pm (Eastern): The History Project (virtual). Recording available on YouTube.

Fort Lauderdale (virtual)

Dec 5, 6:30pm (Eastern): Conversation with Stonewall National Museum, Archives, and Library (virtual). Register via Zoom. Or watch on YouTube.

Chicago

Dec 10, 1pm: Leather Archives & Museum Holiday Fetish Fair (6418 N Greenview Ave)

Omaha

Dec 16, 7pm: Reading at Omaha Mining Company (1715 Leavenworth St)

Kansas City

Dec 17, 2pm: Missouri Valley Sundays at Kansas City Public Library (14 W 10th St). Recording available on YouTube.

Houston

Jan 17: Rice University

Jan 18, 7pm: Reading at Phoenix Room at the Houston Eagle (611 Hyde Park Blvd)

New York

Jan 21, 3pm: Reading at Bureau of General Services—Queer Division, inside The LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St Room 210

San Francisco

Feb 26: San Francisco State University

Feb 27, 7pm: Reading at Fabulosa Books (489 Castro St)

Feb 28: Stanford University

Los Angeles

Mar 28, 6:30pm: ONE Archives at USC Libraries (909 W Adams Blvd)

Image gallery below: illustration outtakes that didn’t make it into the book

Table of Contents 

Preface: Drunk History, or I Just Wanna Hear a Good Beat

Acknowledgments: I Feel Love/Can’t Get You Out of My Head

Introduction: We Were Never Being Boring 

Part I. Cultures

1. Nights in Black Leather: Inventing a Bar Culture in Chicago

Interlude 1. Triangle Lounge in Denver

2. Show Me Love: Female Impersonation and Drag in Kansas City

Interlude 2. Safe Spaces in Detroit

Part II. Politics

3. Somewhere There’s a Place for Us: Urban Renewal, Gentrification, and Class Conflicts in Boston

Interlude 3. Seattle Counseling Service

4. Midtown Goddam: Discrimination, Coalition, and Community in Atlanta

Interlude 4. Gay Switchboard in Philadelphia

Part III. Institutions

5. Welcome to the Pleasuredome: Legends of Sex and Dancing in New York

Interlude 5. The Saloon in Minneapolis

6. Proud Mary’s: An Institution in Houston

Interlude 6. The Main Club in Superior, WI

Part IV. Reinventions

7. Further Tales of the City: Queer Parties in Post-disco San Francisco

Interlude 7. The Casa Nova in Somerset County, PA

8. Donde Todo es Diferente: Queer Latinx Nightlife in Los Angeles / Researched and Written with Dan Bustillo

Interlude 8. Mable Peabody’s Beauty Parlor and Chainsaw Repair in Denton, TX

After Hours. Pulse in Orlando

Appendix 1. Selected Bars and Clubs

Appendix 2. LGBTQ+ Periodicals

Notes

Bibliography

Index